Account abandoned due to dbzer0 members disparaging me for sharing my experiences and trying to provide interesting leftist OC

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  • Mario_Dies.wav@lemmy.dbzer0.comtoMemes@lemmy.mlKnow your enemy
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    10 months ago

    Yeah, whatever happened was a totally disproportionate response to a single bad interview for an audience of people who were never likely to support the movement in the first place.

    I guess it’s super hard to put one’s personal feelings aside for the greater good, and it’s frighteningly easy to get drawn into dogpiling and scapegoating a single person rather than pausing and reflecting on forming a more constructive response.

    Neither of the communities ever really recovered from that, and in my opinion that says a lot more about the myriad users than it does about one mod.




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    10 months ago

    The mods were misfiring for sure, but what made me step away were not the mods – that could have been addressed over time – but the users. My reaction to the video and what the mods said was basically, “Oh haha, that was bad!” and I think that’s where it ended for me. I had noted issues with the mods prior to that and brought them up, and no one seemed to care at that time – I even pointed out several times that one of the mods had a stickied post on their profile specifically requesting interviews – so it’s hard for me to believe that the users were acting in good faith. Why did no one seem to care before that interview happened? But everyone got drummed up into an emotional frenzy, and that sort of thing is what tears movements apart – not one or two bad mods.

    I agree the mods shouldn’t have positioned themselves as spokespeople, but there were so many other ways it could have been handled without melting down.


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    10 months ago

    It was Fox News. Even if had been a stellar interview, they would have made it look bad.

    And I don’t think it had any actual impact on how people viewed the community in general. It’s just people being terminally online and blowing things way out of proportion.

    I agree the interview was bad, but it’s also one of the most inconsequential parts about it. That’s the tiniest most petty reason I’ve ever seen a community tear itself apart over. It was like a bunch of mindless chickens pecking one to death because they saw a spot of blood. Definitely on brand for reddit though.



  • Remove human failure points: We fail, get tired, and forget things. To maintain security, avoid relying on manual conditions and processes that you have to remember.

    I feel like this is a big one. We all tend to vastly overestimate our ability to respond appropriately and competently in any situation, especially when so many things pressure us to respond quickly.

    Except me, of course. I’m immune to this because I always do the correct thing, every time. /s