Depends on how much effort you want to put into it. Nextcloud is the closest in terms of features but you’ll need to set it up.

I have a ProtonDrive account and I like it but it doesn’t have auto upload of photos. You need to manually upload them. I’m personally fine with this since 90% of my photos are receipts and junk.

I can’t imagine depending on Google to store anything. They shouldn’t be able to even see what links you save.