I mean, I’m not in any better of a camp. all of my friends refuse to get off discord.

Matrix or Signal only for me. nobody uses Whatsapp here in the states, sms is simply insecure in every way, and telegram has very suspicious roots imo, along with a lack of e2ee and a terrible ui.

signal is the most secure option and matrix is federated making it the most “open” option.

there is a difference between something being the airlines responsibility, and you still having some form of etiquette and thought for others when said airline wont fix the issue.

just because it shouldn’t be your problem doesn’t mean it isn’t. absolute individualism is a curse