• snekerpimpA
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    2 days ago

    They just got really good at masking the shit in their head, don’t blame yourself

    • Flickerby@lemm.ee
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      2 days ago

      Had to cut ties with some family too (because I firmly believe family is a PRIVILEGE and not a RIGHT and if you’re a shit bag you lose that privilege) but I had always known they were horrible people from the start at least.

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        1 day ago

        This is my daily struggle. I mean… the ties are cut. The struggle is essentially grieving the loss of a parent as if they were dead.

        I feel a little better when I hear that others have, to some degree, done the same.

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          1 day ago

          I certainly have. The tough part is clients. I have a major client whom I recently discovered voted F34 because they really think he was the lesser of two evils. He’s also my ENT doc.

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          1 day ago

          Yeah it’s, well…it’s not a struggle for me personally because the snot nozzles who I’m talking about offended everyone from mother Mary to Lucifer but I get it when it’s someone you mildly care about. Pro tip? Stop caring