that would be the worst, then again if you can get this many girls in the same bed as you would they leave you over this ?

let’s unpack this

give them supprort for being trans,gay and queer

I am not a drug user anymore

Second I am a great girlfriend and I would argue better then the majority of girlfriends.

I didn’t even suggest that but if men decide they prefer porn to therapy who are we to tell them they are wrong.

also no touch it tell me what is wrong with it.

How is anything I have said wrong ?

why ?

that was only white women Black women are the DNC’s biggest voter base

I am not even advocating taking their rights away. They can still play their video games, bet on their sporrtsball games and watch their porn maybe even pay a sugar baby if they finaly a get a job I don’t care

I have heard this narrative before that the alt right recruited from white men who were sad and these chuds told them they were valid yeh yeh.

No we need to beat on them more and if they feel guilty then they should just stop doing what they’re doing

You also sound young as well as full of energy on this topic. You are losing the human perspective in favor of us versus them politics. You are perpetuating it.

on some level it always comes down to us vs them

Here is my other point, I feel like the leftist policy for men has failed becuase we can’t decide if we’re tryign to appeal to their cyncial best interest or appeal to their high minded sense of virtue I think we are trying to do both and not doing either and the fact we have to censor our rhetoric and the rage of millions of ppresed women to avoid hurting their feefees is proof.

I think if we’re going to appeal to their concsicus we shoudln’t pull any punches or censor anything and if they see the erro in their ways welcome to the team, if not then they weren’t worth having anyways.

If we’re going to just bribe them we need to do it better and realize if you want the carrot and stick to work we have to give the carrot. How can we do that you may ask ? Well I work in the porn indudstry so I know that porn is very powerful people are passionate about it and devote a lot of time adm oney to it Most of the porn industry is either idoelogically progressive or cynically progressive since they know a chud occupied government would derail the gravy train.

So why don’t we use porn as a way to raise funds and get the word out there. Let’s invite populr beloved OF models to rallies to do meet and greets, let’s have leftist non profits do fund raising initves with models to sell them videos cheaper then their normal rates (the ycould write this off on their taxes to I know a lot of celebs do this)

what did I say in that post ? I have never deleted a post it was liekly taken down by mods I migth still have it on my profile or remmeber more about it so describe the post ad I will clear up any misunderstanding

agian if they cared so much about him where were they before ?

right but the norm is already changing on so many other issues why is this an exception ?

Now it’s the norm for women to work, couples to not have kids, women to not change their last names.

We are not in a traditional relationship. I do onlyfans for one, I pay him a portion of that to live in his house that he owns. Traditionally a dwelling like this would be co owned by both people int he relationship or at least he would let his woman stay there for free but I am consistent and I know it’s not fair for me to demand tradition compliance out of him but be progressive personally because it benefits him

am I talking to Neville Chamberlain here. We shouldn’t appease fascist men. If men feel alienated by feminism or women’s empowerment then you don’t want them on yoru side anyways.

We tried compromising with them. Plenty of women still date and want relationships with men even though it has literally no benefit, they have tons of porn they can watch with the possibility of legalized prostitution already being talked about and if that isn’t good enough they can just transition and be a woman which they won’t because they know women are still oppressed and they hate women.

Their misogyny is why women don’t want them and why women are saying no. Most men are just not worth it.

i also haven’t posted on lemmy in like 2 weeks because the laptop i had lemmy on was left at my moms house and i was to lazy to change my password

the issue with that norm is it contradits anohter norm

that most cheaters are never given a second chance, so most cheating victims don’t know if once a cheater always a cheater is true they never find out

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being good faith doesn’t mean you are a good debater.

Christopher Hitchens often argued for stuff he didn’t know or care much about but he did an amazing job at it.

Meanwhile a 62 IQ Florida man who thinks the earth is flat might be the most good faith pure of heart debater who beehives that in his heart of heart that the earth is flat. He will be a terrible debater.

What about people who debate issues they don’t agree with and steel man them ? good things have come from this because it causes new people to look at stuff and bring an outside view to things and point out something the activist on either side of a debate haven’t noticed.

It discredits their view points. When you debate you are almost never going to convince the other person the goal is to convince the audience or people who haven’t made up their minds.

so funny thing

Israel asked Bush to strike Iran’s nuclear program. Bush refused

They asked him again to strike Syria’s program

He refused again.